People want you to see them at their best. Its why we dress to impress at clubs and on first dates. Women will get a little more dolled up than usual. You see what people want you to see. Its because we are judged on our imperfections; the scratches; the scuffs. Its the sad reality that we don’t know when we have something good. If you are looking for the bad in someone; an excuse to make a hard decision for you; of course you’ll find it. We all make mistakes. To really know a person, just hang out with them. Appreciate the good they show you, accept the bad they have. Even then, do not be offended if their everything isn’t shared with you. An individual is entitled to a self, and if they share every privacy, they no longer have a self.
there are few good things life gives us, don’t fuck them up
